Clearly you charm people everywhere you go, both online and in real life! The fact that the ladies at the Sally Army putting special things aside for you and those in the US have a rummage sale and put up those sweet signs, are both such a clear sign of this. And those pants are fantastic! Hope your sale went well.
yes it is ok to be pregnant after gastric bypass, the only concern is that within the first couple of years you are not absorbing sufficient nutrients so they want you to wait I believe it is two years.