yep, I remeber The Matter of Time and the Flautist, I went in the Matter of Time for a drink once.. I was ill for two daysI remember when it was The Horn Of Plenty also, In the early 90′;s i believe someone got shot outside.
I agree. You need to listen to your gut and I think you should cut off all communication because he probably is getting his hopes up because you still respond. Good Luck!