I am a big believer in this moon stuff, everyone shoudl check out the Moon Guide by Jeff Murry, this site seems pretty simlar but a little more focused on specific days vs feeding times every day. Not sure if one is better than the other but I will keep an eye on it.
So sorry things are not working out. I am a recent discoverer of your blog. When I read your tweet about there being trouble in Farmerland, I kept returning to see if you had blogged with more detail. When I read this blog, all I could think was awwwwwww. Hugs to you and the boys.